You Have No Control Over Others: You Do have Control Over Yourself

     Something that 2021 taught me is that I have no control over anyone except myself. People can say anything & do anything they desire. Whether it's authentic or not is none of my concern. As long as I am comfortable in my truth and being honest with other people that's all that truly matters. This is a huge life lesson that had to knock me out before I understood it. I spent so much of my life trying to figure out if others were being loyal and truthful to me but the truth is I wasn't any of those things for myself, so how did I expect other people to be true to me? I don't know but that's where we were. Today I can stand tall and proud and say I am as honest as I can be with myself, my family, and my friends. There are still some things I feel are no one's business so I'm not going to put myself out there too much, but I believe in telling the truth to let go of things. The more you harbour the truth within the more damage you do to yourself. Being honest has nothing to do with the other people! It has everything to do with yourself. Next time you find yourself  stuck between a rock and a hard place, just be honest, the worst that can happen is ending up like me and having a mental nervous breakdown and losing everything you own. I don’t want that for anyone so please just be honest, not only for your sanity but for the world.

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